February is the month of love! While romantic love is worth celebrating—it’s also a beautiful time to focus on loving yourself. Nurturing your yourself allows you to show up with more presence and love for others! It’s essential to your emotional wellness, happiness, and health. So, this month, let’s set aside time for self-care! With simple practices, you can create a sense of balance, connection, and inner peace. Read on for self-care tips to help you show yourself love this February.

What is Self-Care?

Self-care is intentional practices that nurture your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. By recognizing your needs, and addressing them, you take care of yourself. Self-care isn’t always indulgent – sure, sometimes it’s a bubble bath, but sometimes it’s cleaning your home or scheduling an appointment you’ve been avoiding! Remember, taking care of yourself is not selfish—it’s essential for personal health, resilience, and overall quality of life.

Here are a few self-care suggestions for the month ahead – you deserve love and care! Pamper yourself this month, and you just might find you have more love to share with others. 

7 Self-Care Tips: Love Yourself This Valentine’s Day

1. Set Aside Time for Daily Journaling

Journaling is a beautiful way to communicate with yourself. This simple act can help you uncover and release emotions you may not have even realized were there. Set aside 10-15 minutes to write freely. Allow yourself to journal without judgment or rules – perhaps you’re inspired to write poetry, or maybe you create a to-do list! There is no right or wrong. Simply let your thoughts flow onto paper.

Some prompts you might consider exploring:

  • What do I need to let go of for my heart to feel lighter?
  • What does self-love look like for me today?
  • What actions could I add to my calendar this week to care for myself?
  • What do I love about myself?
  • What is weighing on my heart right now?
  • What am I grateful for right now?

2. Repeat Self-Love Affirmations

Affirmations can help shift your mindset. Every time you repeat a positive affirmation, you’re rewiring your brain to believe it, and aligning your vibrations with the resonation of love and healing! Find a few affirmations that feel powerful to you – it can be helpful to focus on affirmations that counteract any negative self-talk that you have. For example, if you often tell yourself you’re not doing enough, you might repeat the affirmation: “I have enough, I do enough, I AM enough.” 

Affirmations to boost self-love:

  • “I love myself exactly as I am.”
  • “I am worthy of love.”
  • “My heart is open to give and receive love.”
  • “I embrace all of me.”
  • “I am beautiful inside and out.”

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3. Spend Time With Yourself

Take yourself on a date! You could head to your favorite restaurant, enroll in a pottery class, or curl up with a book at home. The goal is simply to spend time with yourself, doing something you love, on your timeline. Time alone allows you to explore your interests and listen to your heart without being distracted by the wants and needs of others. If you tend to prioritize others over yourself, this can help you put yourself first for once.

4. Practice Meditation

Meditation is a simple yet powerful exercise to nourish your heart, mind, and soul.

  • How to Practice:
    1. Find a comfortable, quiet space where you can sit undisturbed for a few minutes.
    2. It can be nice to set a time goal – perhaps 3 to 5 minutes to start! Powerful change can happen in just a few minutes.
      • Set a timer for your desired length, or choose a guided meditation. Apps such as Insight Timer or Headspace are good options for guided meditations!
    3. Once you’re ready, let your eyes get heavy and close.
    4. Take a few deep breaths to help yourself drop into a meditative state.
    5. Then, let your breath return to its natural rhythm, and simply try to clear your mind.
    6. As thoughts come up, try your best to set them aside, and return to presence!

This practice can calm your nervous system, boost your mood, and help you feel more grounded.

5. Treat Yourself to an Energy Healing Session

Energy healing can help clear blockages and bring balance to your heart. Consider treating yourself to a session with an energy healer in your favorite healing modality – or practicing modalities such as the Emotion Code, Body Code, and Belief Code on yourself! 

If you’re an energy healer, you likely practice on yourself quite a bit, and you know how much a session can help support your health and happiness! You might consider investing in a session with another healer, too. Getting an outside perspective and a relaxing session led by someone else can be transformative. You might walk away learning something new about yourself!

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6. Create Your Own Spa Day

A warm bath, candles, tranquil music, a face mask… what could represent self-care more than that?! Try infusing your bath with Epsom salts and/or essential oils for even more benefits. You might use heart-chakra-balancing essential oils such as rose, lavender, or geranium. Put time and attention into your physical being. Pamper yourself with things like skincare, a hair mask, beard oil – anything that makes you feel good!

7. Connect with Your Inner Child

Reconnecting with your inner child can be a beautiful way to show love to yourself. Connect with your inner child by doing something creative like drawing, dancing, painting, or crafting – but try your best to release any attachment to how your creative pursuit turns out! Enjoy the process of creating, like you did as a child. You might also try writing a letter to your younger self, offering encouragement, compassion, and advice.

This February, make it a priority to take care of yourself! By incorporating these simple self-care practices into your routine, you’ll create space for healing, love, and balance. Remember, taking care of yourself isn’t selfish! It benefits everyone around you as well.

What will you do today to show yourself some love?